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Over the years, we've always compared our family life to a wagon train heading west. Just as everyone had to do his part to get to Oregon years ago, so everyone in our family must do his/her part to make our journey through life successful. If somebody climbs in the wagon and lets the others do the work, we just don't make any progress. We all have to pull our weight and work together. Along the trail we find lots of pebbles that make for a smooth ride and some bigger rocks that jar us a little; we hit the occasional pothole that can slow us down. But if we purpose to search diligently, there are countless gold nuggets and precious gemstones along the way as well. This journal is an attempt to preserve some of those precious moments for our children, and our children's children, as together we travel this trail called life.

Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore. Psalm 16:11


Monday, January 31, 2011

1-31-11 Happy Birthday, Joshua

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Yep, our baby is now two years old. And, for the next 6 weeks, our kids are all even ages, from 2 to 18. Ben will begin the switch to odds when he turns 9 in March. 

Anyway. What an absolutely precious little boy we’ve been given. I keep thinking of him as my baby, but he’s really not at all. Joshua is by far our cutest baby (as voted by his older siblings and parents), and he is also by far the most loved. He can be the most fussy, too, especially when it comes to food. He has never been a good eater (wasn’t a good nurser even), so at meals he doesn’t eat well, then later I wonder if he fusses because he’s hungry (?!). Oh – ice cream, cookies, candy – he does fine at eating those types of things, but vegetables, apples, potatoes – not so well. Typical? I guess, but most of our 2-year-olds weren’t quite this finicky. He’s starting to learn though, that if he doesn’t eat what Mama says to eat first, he doesn’t get his cherished ice cream - - - Mama wins. He’s so much fun to get laughing – he says such cute things in the cutest ways. HIs avid audience reports every new word – well, they used to, but anymore he says about anything they tell him to, so it doesn’t all get reported. At any rate, our precious Littlest is very very very loved, and we are so so thankful God gave him to us. 

Joshua was so cute when Grandma Steiner called to sing Happy Birthday at lunch. He just studied that phone (I had it on speaker), and halfway through, he waved and said, “Hi!” with a questioning lilt to his voice, like he wasn’t sure how Grandma got in that phone. Precious!

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Another Happy Birthday after supper.

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A new swing – now in the basement but will go outside in a few short weeks (we hope).

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That’s it.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

1-30-11 Birthday Bars

We were all blessed to be healthy and go to church today! I concluded that Jewel’s puking on Thursday afternoon was something she ate. First, she had no fever ever. Second, it came quickly – very quickly. Third, it was over quickly. Fourth, no one else got it. Conclusion: some bite of her lunch was contaminated with something. Eeks. Sobering thought, but part of life I guess.

Anyway – we enjoyed being in church again. James 3 was the morning meditation – we heard so many good exhortations on the tongue - “how great a matter a little fire kindleth.” Very convicting as we heard about repeating stories: gossip.  I know I fail too much in this area and will strive harder to do better with God’s help.

ASK came for supper and brought bars for Joshua’s birthday (he’ll be two tomorrow). What a precious little guy!

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Saturday, January 29, 2011

1-29-11 New Car

Today was a busy Saturday – we started some deep cleaning, which wasn’t really planned but necessary nonetheless. Dad’s bedside stand has looked like this for months - - -

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- - -and, while he did NOT like it at all, he (and I) wasn’t sure what to do differently. So - - - today we (girls and I) did some brainstorming and came up with a great plan that we immediately put into action. All furniture moves were successful; we deep-cleaned his closet while we were at it and so now we have officially started our spring cleaning. All we have to do now is finish it [smile].

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While we girls were tearing the house apart and putting it back together, Dad and Jesse were buying this car. With Levi and Jesse more frequently going different places, we knew the time would come when we would need another vehicle. This was the first one we looked at – after coming home last night and web-shopping for a couple hours, we were quite satisfied that this little dandy was just right. And it is. 

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So Dad did the titlework in Morton while I got the kids started painting in the basement, and then Dad and I took off for Menard’s (again) to get supplies for the next step in the basement. Sounds like Uncle Jerry’s men are kind of slow right now which is GREAT for us, as they will hopefully be here some this  week again.

We met with some of the kids after supper, and the rest of the crew had a wild time (interpret: LOUD) for awhile. Then Bibletime and beds for all.

One last picture of this very cute little boy. Yep – he’s still my baby, but he looks like such a little boy in this picture. Maybe because he IS a little boy and not a baby (but he is!)…

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Yep, he’s the cutest one so far…we love you so much precious Joshua!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

1-27-11 Nuggets of Winter

After a grand and glorious total of 10 days of a healthy household, Jewel puked this afternoon…and again at bedtime…so…here we go again. But I have no complaints – oh, no, none at all. We were blessed with a great weekend with the Rauhes here, and have no major plans this  weekend which is a good thing because if we did they would be canceled. And that’s ok; we love calm weekends too.

So what have we been up to this week? Well, nothing much to report besides routine…aaahh, love that word. Well, actually Monday and Wednesday were routine, and Tuesday was a routine Restmor which we thoroughly enjoyed, complete with errands afterwards, and, since we sang solo, we did McD’s drive-through for lunch. Big treat, huh? And today…Jacob got braces on. So far, so good, with no headaches to report yet.

Other than that – studying, cleaning, baking, cooking, cleaning, playing, hugging, singing, loving, living, laughing, reading, learning, cleaning, coloring, arguing, fighting (yeah, some of that too, can’t deny it – we’re pretty normal), more hugging, more loving, and did I mention cleaning? A big family makes a lot of laundry, you know. And a lot of muddy floors.

Here’s what the camera captured this week – most of these the kids took, but I took this first one. It’s a cup of hot raspberry tea. Yep, one of the highlights of winter for me. Rather than focus on sick kids and cold gray days (haven’t seen the sun once all week, I don’t think), I choose to enjoy the nuggets of winter. Hot raspberry tea is the top of the list for me. Other things on the list – being housebound slows the pace down a lot, with no garden and lawn. That’s a nugget I daily appreciate. Also hot chocolate after being outside. Also my cozy family room in my cozy mansion. Just to name a few…

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A new nugget this winter – most likely to be repeated henceforth – attracting songbirds. Absolutely beautiful!

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And so many of them – very distracting to the kids, but what a nice distraction. They are so neat to watch. When we first started putting out food, they would fly away at the slightest bump on the window. It’s been interesting to watch them lose their fear of bumps and come closer each day. This is one of about 4 male cardinals.

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Mrs. Cardinal (there are about 5).

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Downy woodpecker.

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We also regularly see nuthatches, tufted titmice, sparrows, red-headed woodpeckers (or northern flickers; we’re not sure which it is), bluejays, and juncos.

And…GREAT excitement when a coyote was spotted.

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We’ve been doing good at getting our fresh air and exercise – as usual, once I kick everyone outside, they have a blast and no one wants to come back in. The four-wheeler has been getting lots of use every day, kids have been on the trampoline and swings and in the sandbox, and I’ve enjoyed some beautiful solo walks – in spite of no sunshine. Today I got a bonus walk when Karol came later in the afternoon – and another bonus when we saw the sun for the first time this week. Beautiful!

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Jacob’s new look.

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Boys being boys.

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That’s it; good night!

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Remember When…

…we turned our crawlspace into a basement?

First, Dad cut a hole in the west side of the crawlspace concrete wall so we could insert a conveyor which we rented from a neighbor.

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Installing the conveyor; this was on a Saturday.

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And the digging began…girls helped too.

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The boys by far did most of the digging but couldn’t be bothered to stop for pictures (hence Jesse’s look of irritation).

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Looking south from the furnace room into the crawlspace.

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Unbelievably rapid progress. According to the date on the picture, this is a week later.

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Hard to believe our basement used to look like this!

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Outside, the 4-wheeler and the mower both pulled trailers which were parked under the conveyor and then hauled to the pile. There was plenty of work for all, and the kids worked HARD. We knew we faced the danger of rain caving in the walls once we hauled the supporting dirt away, so the pace was pretty frantic, with a lot of stress on Dad. The kids kept it moving great, in addition to doing their schoolwork.

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Always time for fun, though!

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That second Saturday, Dad cut the next hole in the south crawlspace wall. We had hired a few high school boys to help with the digging, both on a Monday school holiday (Columbus Day, maybe?) and on this Saturday. They were a tremendous help.

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If I remember right (can’t say I recognize the top of this head), Kendall Fehr helped knock out this hole.

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Done!

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Inside crew – Drake and Wade Sinn, Kendall, and Trent was there somewhere too. The conveyor kept clogging from dirt that would get thrown underneath, so this highly sophisticated cardboard and duct tape conglomeration was invented to prevent that problem.

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Removing the conveyor from the west hole…

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…inserting it into the south hole.

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Ready to go again.

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This time the angle called for something higher, so the hayrack was employed to catch and move the dirt.

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Then…it rained!!

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We mounted these tarps and boards in an attempt to direct the rain away from the house, with limited success.

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Despite the worry and stress of the issue, the walls did not turn to mud and the house did not fall in, thankfully. On Saturday, October 18, exactly two weeks after being inserted for the first time, the conveyor was removed for the last time, and we were ready for concrete.  For most of that two weeks, we were extremely blessed with pleasant weather – much rain could have been disastrous. After building the forms, we were ready to pour footings.

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Always we were glad for Uncle Jerry’s help. He taught us a lot.

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Blue lines are marked where the door will be knocked out – a very dusty job so no pictures of that step. This is looking north into the furnace room.

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Looking south from the furnace room.  The door has been knocked out, and forms and supports are being built for the walls.

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Ready to pour walls…

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Look closely to see the concrete chute. All the concrete came in right there and had to be shoveled both left and right to completely fill all the forms. There was tremendous pressure at that spot, and, wouldn’t you know it, one of those support beams was weakened by a knothole or something so it gave way about halfway through. This allowed the wall to bow out right there, but with lots of determination and strength, the concrete was shoveled away from that spot and the forms were reinforced, leaving very little bow in the finished wall.

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Little ones held flashlights so shovelers could see what they were doing.

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Many hands were needed.

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I learned that steel rods called rebar are mounted inside concrete for strength.

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Grandpa Steiner stopped by and got put to work too.

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Tori was the photographer, and she did a great job; Sarah and Jewel were on stools watching, if I remember right.

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Nice ruts. I kind of forget, but I think this was the second loaded concrete truck, and the driver was kind of young. He got thoroughly stuck (the first driver knew how to drive in soft ground and had no problem).

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Praise God for wonderful neighbors! Dave Uhlman to the rescue.

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Finishing up.

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Dave got put to work too. We were so thankful for his help and his tractor.

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Done, November 19.

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Plumbing for the bathroom…Dad and the boys did it all.

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December 18, Brett and his crew, with Levi and Jesse helping, poured the floor for us.

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Done.

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And this is how the basement bedroom has looked for the last 2+ years. Quite rudimentary, but our boys never minded.

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Also during the rest of the winter of 2008, Dad and the boys built walls for a bathroom and storage room. I can only surmise that with Christmas plans, being pregnant with Joshua, and then having him, I didn’t take one single picture of the construction progress on that part of the project. I do know that I singlehandedly did the sponge painting in one magnificent 45 minute stretch when Joshua was sleeping, so that must have been early spring, but other than that, the boys did it all, with Dad managing in the evenings. Every night he would go over the next step and answer any questions they had about it. They built the walls, did the drywall and mudding, did the priming, installed the mirror, lights, stool, shower, and sink/vanity, and did all the trim. We hired Tim Ropp to do the plumbing and wiring, but other than that, Dad and the boys did ‘er all. And they did a great job, too, and the boys learned a lot of valuable skills.

The west bedroom wall, which is also the east bathroom wall.

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The bathroom -

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Looking south into the well-used storage room. Tim Ropp also raised some of the ductwork for us as it was pretty low before. The boys built me lots of heavy-duty shelves (from Menards) which have been invaluable to me; I greatly appreciate my storage room and often marvel that all this baby paraphernalia, extra toys and bedframes, canning jars, homeschool records, butchering tubs, etc. used to be accessed only by the kids crawling all over the crawlspace and me trying to tell them WHICH box it was that I needed. I’m so thankful for a better way.

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Which  brings us to the current project of finishing the bedroom, which has already been sufficiently chronicled.

Good day!