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Over the years, we've always compared our family life to a wagon train heading west. Just as everyone had to do his part to get to Oregon years ago, so everyone in our family must do his/her part to make our journey through life successful. If somebody climbs in the wagon and lets the others do the work, we just don't make any progress. We all have to pull our weight and work together. Along the trail we find lots of pebbles that make for a smooth ride and some bigger rocks that jar us a little; we hit the occasional pothole that can slow us down. But if we purpose to search diligently, there are countless gold nuggets and precious gemstones along the way as well. This journal is an attempt to preserve some of those precious moments for our children, and our children's children, as together we travel this trail called life.

Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore. Psalm 16:11


Friday, December 7, 2012

12-7-12 Week In Review

by Tori

This week has been rather normal. Yesterday Mom and I went to Peoria, as I had a consultation on a cavity. Thankfully, the doctor thought I likely won’t need a root canal surgery done, which made me very happy. This morning Mom and Aunt Sarah did errands and Christmas shopping and lunch out. At home we all did school and Friday jobs.

A few pictures from this week.

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The cutest little guy on the block.

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Kate found a strange place to practice guitar.

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Horseback rides are still a favorite. Lately, Jewel has started asking to ride by herself, so we put her on Diamond in the little pen. It’s pretty cute to watch her make Diamond stop, go, and reverse. She loves riding her and never wants to get off.

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These dandelions are a little confused – they must think it’s March.

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Were still getting 4 dozen+ eggs a day.

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The newest bit of technology around is Dad’s iPhone. 

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Story-time.

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Music practice after supper.

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Have a great weekend.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

12-6-12 Puzzling Ramble

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Some of our kids are natural puzzlers; they could do them at age two (or younger) by themselves. Some of our kids are not natural puzzlers; they had no interest in doing them at age two, and even at age three and older they just weren’t that thrilled with the activity. Josh is kind of an in between one. He’s not had a huge interest in puzzles, but he has always done them with me when I pull them out during our morning puzzle time. We take turns putting in pieces, and he does okay, but not great. Sometimes he doesn’t have the patience to study the piece and figure out where it goes; but if I show him where it goes, he’ll put it in correctly. One day this week he picked out this set to do, and we started out taking turns like usual. It wasn’t too long, though, that he was going out of turn and pretty much doing it by himself.

It kind of pulled me up short.

He doesn’t need me anymore.

Yes, I know he needs me and always will, in various and multitudes of ways, just like my older kids do, but he doesn’t need me to do puzzles with him anymore.

Of course I’ll still do puzzles with him, just like I still do puzzles with Jewel and Sarah and Ben and my other puzzlers, but he doesn’t need me to help him because

he is growing up!!!!!!!

Josh is almost four years old, which is NOT a baby (which he firmly tells me)(and he’s right), but at this point he does still need me in ways the other kids don’t. Like fixing food (even Jewel can run the microwave), getting dressed correctly (oh, he can dress himself, all right, but if I want him right side out and front side front, he needs my help), brushing his teeth (his efforts don’t quite cut the mustard yet), combing his hair, making his bed (sometimes Ben helps), blowing his nose, putting his shoes on, and so on. Even as I write this, I know that this list is not going to last long at all. Some things will be off the list this winter already. Others will be a little longer, but it is inevitable, this growing up.

**sigh**

I’m vaguely remembering something I’ve seen somewhere.

“One life to live, forever past; only what’s done for Christ will last.”

(something like that)

I’m going to take a little editing liberty; here’s my version:

“One life to live, forever past; what I do for my children will forever last.”

Since God has given me the career of motherhood, what I do for my kids is what I do for Him. Wiping noses – is for Him. Combing hair – is for Him. Washing wet linens (two sets, because he didn’t notice he was wet through and jumped in his sisters’ bed for the joy of it!) – is for Him. Puzzling with our little ones – is for Him. All these things we do as moms – these mundane things for which we’re never thanked or appreciated – are for Him.

But let’s get this straight -

We are thanked, we are appreciated, we are cheered on, encouraged to keep on, and celebrated by the very One Who gave us this job.

And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. Galatians 6:9

Be ye strong therefore, and let not your hands be weak: for your work shall be rewarded. 2 Chronicles 15:7

He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young. Isaiah 40:11

All God’s children can rightly claim these promises, and we who are mothers are not exempt. If we faint not, we shall reap. Our work shall be rewarded. God shall gently lead those that are with young.

As my motherhood career leaves babyhood behind and continues racing towards adult children at a breakneck pace, I’m keenly aware that all stages and ages of kids in between need me just as much as my babies did; it’s just in vastly different ways. And that’s not a bad thing; independence for our kids is what motherhood is all about, is it not?  Attaining that independence with Godly wisdom is our goal for them, isn’t it? So a little boy who doesn’t need me to do puzzles with him is a good thing, right?

But of course!

Then why was I pulled up short?

Because -

it

goes

so

fast!

 

BLINK.

Disappointed smile

 

Just like that.

My puzzle-teaching days are OVER.

As is this ramble.

 

Smile

 

Mama – go puzzle with your little one.

JOYFULLY!

 

 

And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord

Colossians 3:23

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

12-4-12 More Weekend Report

By Kaitlyn

Jesse can’t build anything without his tool pouch.

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The boys rearranged their room so they would have room for their new dresser thing.

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Sunday afternoon before everybody got kicked outside for horse rides, four-wheeler rides, chores etc.

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(There are 7 people reading. Can you find them all?)***

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New lego playroom.

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Ping-pong fun.

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Littles like it when Dad reads books.

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Crazy 8s.

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THE END.

 

 

 

***Jewel is on the green couch, snuggled behind that pillow.

Monday, December 3, 2012

12-3-12 Siding Completed

by Tori

Thursday night Dad and Jacob fixed the bottom of the couch. Hopefully it will stay fixed, as, from the sounds of things, they didn’t have much fun doing it.

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Dad, Jacob, and Ben put up all the siding on Saturday.

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Saturday morning - making Oreo balls.

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We had a pretty good system going. Sarah dropped the balls into the vanilla almond bark, I took them out and placed them on the trays, then Kate drizzled on the chocolate.

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Jesse spent all morning studying, then after lunch he read Josh some books before his nap (Josh’s, not Jesse’s.)

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Starting on the last stretch, around the garage.

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Jesse helped put up siding after lunch as well.

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Almost done! You can see there’s just one row to put up above the garage yet.

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Jesse put on the front door light.

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Finished!!!

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The light and doorbell. Now if we can just get the door frame finished, the outside will be truly done. (I think.)

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Sunday, December 2, 2012

12-2-12 This Little Child

This song has long been one of our Christmas favorites; we have it on a cassette that Dad had when we got married. It's an old album, but Tori was able to put it on the computer a few years ago, so thankfully we can still enjoy this song every Christmas.

Who would have thought that long ago
So very far away
A little child would be born
And in a manger lay

And who would have thought this little CHILD
Was born the KING of kings
The son of Just, the Carpenter
But for whom the Angels sing

And who would have thought that as HE grew
And with other children play
This CHILD with whom they laughed and sang
Would die for them someday

And who would have thought this little CHILD
Would make the blind man see
Feed the hunger, make rich the poor
And set the sinner free

Oh who would have thought this little CHILD
Was who the prophets said
Would take away the sins of man
And rise up from the dead

Oh I believe
And I will always sing
This little CHILD
Is the KING
Oh I believe
And I will always sing
This little CHILD
HE is the KING of kings

Many years have come and gone
Yet this world remains the same
Empires have been built and fallen
Only time has made a change

Nation against nation
Brother against brother
Men so filled with hatred
Killing one another

And over half the world is starving
While our banner of decency is torn
Debating over disarmament
Killing children before they’re born

And fools who march to win the right
To justify their sin
Oh every nation that has fallen
Has fallen from within

Yet in the midst of this darkness
There is a Hope, a Light that burns
This little CHILD, the KING of kings
Someday will return

And I believe
And I will always sing
This little CHILD
Is the KING
And I believe
And I will always sing
This little CHILD
HE is the KING of kings

Who would have thought this little CHILD
Is who the prophets said
Will return to judge this world,
The living and the dead

Oh can't you see, that long ago
So very far away
This little CHILD, our only Hope
Was born a KING that day

This little child will return someday; the Bible tells us so. If you know of this little child, very good. But not good enough. You must know this little child as Lord and Saviour of your life. This little child will give you peace beyond understanding; this peace is for today, tomorrow, and eternity.  If you don’t know this little child, you’ll find Him in your Bible. Read, study, seek diligently. This little child is waiting for you.

Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

Matthew 7:7,8

Saturday, December 1, 2012

12-1-12 December Is Here

Although it does not feel like December, with 50 and 60 degree days and sunshiny blue skies, it is still December, and with December comes the shortest days of the year (which aren’t a favorite of this family) and Christmas (which is). Shopping is almost done, cards are almost all in the mail, special cookies/candies are planned, parties and programs are on the calendar, family get-togethers are taking shape, carols are playing almost constantly, and the nativity is in its place of honor.

With Christmas plans and preparations well underway, very little left to do as far as the house project (I didn’t say nothing; I said very little), and school going very smoothly in full swing, I feel like I can finally sit down and write a little update on life lately.

Umm…besides Christmas, house, and school, there’s not a terribly huge whole lot going on. I think I can summarize pretty quickly without boring anyone too much.

As I write, Dad and crew are finishing up the siding on the house. It’s looking great, and we’re all greatly glad to be almost done. Bathroom vanity etc. is here and will hopefully be mounted next week.

Water is still an issue. As in, this week the water measured two feet in the well, and it did not recharge overnight. That’s a problem. Lord willing, drilling will commence in about two weeks. Stayed tuned; we’ll keep you posted. We’re praying that we’ll find water; otherwise we’ll go to plan B which is an underground cistern and water hauling. Either way, it’s time for a change. Rain is not coming, and the ground is still dry. Our green lawn is deceptive; there is no blazing hot sun to dry it up and thus it stays green, but, know this, we are still in a drought. Our conservation increases, with stock being watered and toilets being flushed with water from the 1500 gallon tank in the red shed. Yep, you read that right. Our boys (mainly Jacob) are regularly hauling 5-gallon buckets into the house so we can flush toilets. And, believe it or not, it’s working just fine. We picked up drinking/washing water from town last night, and we’ll continue to do that so as to save well water for showers and laundry. We’re getting by, and we know we can always go to Grandpa’s or Dave/Beth’s (thanks for all offers!!!!) for laundry and showers too. We know that; but it’s quite more convenient to do it here, for sure, so we’ll haul water for toilets as long as we need to.

Levi is working at CIT fulltime and then goes to PP for another 20 hours. Plus young group now and then, and he’s talked about catching a few pigeons in his free time (what’s that?!). We don’t see him much, but when we do he’s a favorite. He’s been helping Brett some on his house too which he enjoys. Not much else new.

Jesse started an internship in the R&D department at PP this week. So far he likes it, and twenty or so hours will keep him busy. His ICC class is almost done; he’s doing well. He’s signed up for a couple more next semester. He continues plugging away at Calculus using the DIVE/Saxon curriculum. Good thing he has a friend to help him when he gets stuck; he’s past me (thank you Trent!!). He spends some time in banjo practice every day, and has been diligently trying to work in piano practice also. He’s bound and determined that since Tori can play ragtime, he will too Smile.

Sometimes I wish I was Tori. Because she gets to play the piano a lot more than I do. When she plays duets I can quickly justify sitting down to play with her (how fun is a duet with only one part, huh?); but other than that, it’s hard for me to sit down with so many other things to do. I am, however, getting closer to being caught up, and I hope to get in the game again soon…I miss playing. We found some great Christmas music online, and Tori is going to town on learning it; she’s smoking me. And it is really fun music; I love to hear her practice and improve every day. She has a ball babysitting Lincoln and Creighton a few days a month; otherwise she keeps busy with schoolwork, helping here, and riding the horses with Kate.

Jacob milks for Aberles twice a week, studies diligently to get it over with (cannot say he enjoys it), and then spends his days outside taking care of farm things. He is chief water-hauler too.

Kate does the same except she doesn’t milk or haul water. And she rides horses with Tori a few days a week.

Ben does the same except he doesn’t milk or haul water. And he works on his fort in the south grove some too.

Come to think of it, Sarah and Jewel do the same except they don’t milk or haul water. And Josh does the same except he doesn’t do any studying. Just play, do a few jobs, and be cute Smile (which he is very good at).

Big kids practice their music like good little pupils (NOT) and sometimes we even play together as a family. Being real here. I wish they would practice more; they think they practice enough. I wish we would play together more; reality is it’s hard to make time. But we do enjoy it A LOT when we do it, and we’ve even started learning a few new songs that are really fun.  Being brutally honest now. I enjoy it A LOT when we do it – frankly, I love it. It’s amazing, terrific, sounds great, wonderful, blahblah, very fun. But I think the kids endure it because they know I run the kitchen (as in oreo balls, buckeyes, chocolate chip cookies, fresh warm brownies with ice cream, get the picture?); plus they love me and so they do it for me. Without my pushing encouragement, I don’t think they would play as much. But see, I have this wisdom that says the day will come when they wish they could play better than they do, and they won’t have time to practice like they do now. So I shall continue to encourage them. With lots of oreo balls and buckeyes Smile.

 

So much for brief update. I was going to run through a typical day here at the Meadowview Christian Academy but I think I’ll do that another day; this is quite long enough.

 

Update to this update - - - - -

the siding is finished, and it looks great!!

 

***px to be posted next week***

 

 

Rejoice evermore.

Pray without ceasing.

In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

I Thessalonians 5:16-18